Can I Move My Daughter Out Of State Without Fathers Consent If We Are Not Married?

Yes I believe you can...possession is 9 /10th of the law However be sure its for all the right
reasons and not out of spite and for the benefit of the child and yourself.... Also ck the laws in your state now and the one you'll be moving to since they do very from one to the other

Who has custody of her?

Depends on custody, and if you move the house you live in now has to be entitled to you, not you and your ex husband:)

All depends on who has custody if no one has custody yea you can how old is your daughter?