Technical the answer is "No". But if you do not then you will not know what he is planning to do during the divorce proceedings. My Ex had contacted our mortgage company and was trying to get all of the equity out of the house, without my knowledge. He knew he was not going to get the house in the divorce so he was going to, "Teach me a Lesson"!
So I say to you, Go ahead & open it. You can tell him that things get lost in the mail all the time!!
So I say to you, Go ahead & open it. You can tell him that things get lost in the mail all the time!!