Most certainly.... You didn't get pregnant by your self....its his choice to not see them....too many men (including) women, find it easy to walk away from their responsibilities...my ex was getting social security, didn't pay for 18 yrs, until his death last month i was getting a payment from social security..... Go for it girl
Research the laws in your state. In some states, if the man signs over custody of the children, he is no longer required to pay child support. If this is the case, ask nicely again about support but don't push it because he may have the papers drawn up to give you custody and you wont see any of it.
Yes, he should help raise those kid's, financially, if he doesn't want to be in their lives, so sad for the girls, but whether he pays child support, is up to you.. And I am thinking with rising prices and college as expensive as it is.. Then yes without a doubt.please do it for the kid's, they deserve his financial help...
You should be able to find out through the state if he is lying about the disability. I wouldn't let him get away with not paying, you can bet that if you were hurt, he would still be after you for money.
Apply for welfare and they will get every cent they gave you back from him. You can go to family court, they will handle it from their, and find out if he has any money for support.
Yes it takes to to raise children and if he chooses not to see them then that's his deal. File asap. My mom got money from the state when my father refused to pay like $400 a month... There are ways.
Yes you should file. He may be working -- are you sure his accident is 'for real'? If you don't need it for living expenses save it for your daughters education!
I used the max. Amount of words so I'm writing more on the answer part... He says that I'm just money hungry, but we both made these girls so we should both take care of them right?? Since his accident he's tried to work but is in too much pain and said that he got turned down from disability and has no income. I doubt that!! He has to be lying about money somewhere. I haven't filed for child support cause part of me feels bad for him (for his accident and for the fact that when we were together he paid for my two boys that aren't his) but another part of me feels that he should pay for our girls. Its bad enough that he doesn't want to see his 2 precious daughters but he should at least help support them. And i don't work..i have an autistic child and and adhd child (plus my 2 little girls) and no drivers license so right now it's hard for me to work. (but i am trying to find a job) i don't know.. I'm just so confused. And if i do file will i ever get any money from him if he says he has no income?? Any suggestions would be great!!
