Im 13 And I Live With My Mom, But I Want To Live With My Dad, But My Mom Is Fighting For Me And She Wont Let Me Go, I Dont Know What To Do...Can You Help Me!?!?!?

That sucks I'm in the exact same situation I'm 13 too but I'm a boy my mom says "you will never live there until the day I die'' my dad keeps telling me to wait until I'm 14 then hes taking her to court and I'm leaving to live with him my mom says hes just feeding me lies but well who cares what ever happens happens you noe at least your not dying of cancer things could be worse!!

You know, jamesdandy had some good advice, but as a divorced mom with kids, I have to say that if you really want to live with your dad, first you need to talk to both of your parents. You need to let them know why you want to live with your parents. If it is a good enough reason, then maybe your dad will ask his lawyer what can be done about it. In some states when a child reaches a certain age, they can also talk to the judge about where they want to live. Make sure you are making the right decision. Don't want to live with your dad just because he has always let you do what you want. I guarantee that will change if he is the only parent in the house. Good luck.

Oh my god I'm in the same situation! Except I'm 11. I know how it feels. I told my mom twice but she told I will NEVER live with my dad. I love her and everything it's just that we don't have a good relationship. We fight almost EVERY day. My mom lives in Missouri and my dad lives in Georgia. My mom used to live here but moved and she didnt even ask my opinion! Today is the last day of this trip at my dads house! I'm am freaking crying my eyes out! I feel SO confused. I love my mom and I don't want to break her heart! Everyone always tells me that I need to know of myself but I just can't  do it! I already know  shes going to take it like she did last time. She fought and said nasty LIES about my dad! That's illegal! I don't know what to do at all!

I know exactly how you feel. I'm 14 and I live with my grandparents. My parents are divorced. My mom is moving down to texas and my dad travels a lot. But I want to move in with my dad. Its hard to get my grandparents to listen since they've raised me since I was 3. But you have to talk to everyone involved and check your heart to see if its exactly what you want to do. Hope this helps. Good Luck!

You I want to live with my dad to, an I'm 12 almost 13 though and I'm still talking to mom bout it and  then she turns all my words around on me and says that I can't. I live bout a mile away from dads an I just want to spend weekends down there. My advice would be to make sure that it is what you really want, if your sure then sit both them down and talk to them an don't let them leave til' they under stand

Just site down with your mon and talk and say you wont to I live my dad or weekly if thats ok just say that

Dude really reconsider that I did that and I lost every sense of living. I hate my father.

Young lady, sorry to hear about your parents' unhappiness, which has also made you feel this turmoil and I can just tell you just what the relieved doctor told her patient when he survived accidentally swallowing a half dollar...this too shall pass. Some of the worst pain in life is, oddly, all too often resolved to some of life's greatest feelings of pleasure and reassurance. To be patient is to be strong, and you are not the only one in the situation feeling the empty pangs of loneliness, loves lost or refracted, dashed hopes, and confused, awkward moments. When the pain seems the worst, you are likely already over the hump, and are set to glide back to former glory, even better. I promise. Then comes the joy of a new day. Trust me. I am a survivor, long live the both of us. Trust in your parents, they know what is best and will do just that because they are the ones who love you like no other.

I understand how you feel. I'm 13, and I currently live with my mom and step dad. My dad lives in florida and I love in georgia. I'm not sure what the georgia law will allow, but my mom claims that they won't allow me to move where I want until I am 18. Which I don't believe is true... I need some help as well!

Just site down with your mon and talk and say you wont to I live my dad or weekly if thats ok just say that