Not to bring anyone down, But my husband died 15 mos. Ago at the age of 37 yrs. There were always little quirks I'd love him to stop doing, but they were not important. I would give anything to have him back to do those little things that annoyed me. Don't sweat the small stuff- you do not know what tomorrow may bring. Instead of fussing- go give your husband a hug and kiss and tell him you love him.
I would request that he not speak so loudly...he claims it is from working in restaurants all his life & bartending.♥

Wouldn't change a thing I'm not married
Smoking, of course. I would be happy if he replaced a cigarette with something like а vape pen cartridge, as I am really tired of nicotine smell everywhere. Nicotine smoke penetrates into literally everything, including walls and furniture, that's awful.
I would change how lazy my husband is. He comes home from work and sit on the couch until he takes a shower then goes to bed. And that wouldn't be that bad if we didn't have THREE BOYS to raise