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my sister has been being sexually assaulted by her friend for the past few years, now my sister is doing it to other kids. my mom doesn't care and doesn't want to hear about it. What can help my sister?

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Jann Nikka Profile
Jann Nikka answered

Immediately report everyone to the police.

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Madison Genovese
Madison Genovese commented
is there an authority lesser then the police to contact (because my sister and her friend are 12&13)
Jann Nikka
Jann Nikka commented
NO. Sexual abuse of any kind should be reported and especially that of a child and children abusing children. Reported this horrific violence immediately.
Madison Genovese
Madison Genovese commented
ok thankyou
Bikergirl Anonymous Profile

Tell someone else ... Someone you already know, like a grandparent aunt or uncle, older brothers/sisters, or for that matter any other adult that may be able to help to stop this, .. Or call the police yourself even if you report it annonymously.  It will be investigated and stopped (if it in fact is really happening) .. Your sister and the other children should not pay consequences for your own mothers refusal to accept the truth about what is happening.  You need to insist that someone get involved in this .. And ASAP!

If you are not part of the solution .. You are part of the problem. 

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Madison Genovese
Madison Genovese commented
that last part is true thats why i really want to do something to stop it. I've told my grandmother but my mom got very mad at me because my grandma got mad at her and she won't let me talk about my sister anymore. idk if i want to call normal police
but is there a lesser authority under police for dealing with like children? (they are 12 and 13)
Walt O'Reagun Profile
Walt O'Reagun answered

You keep asking if there is a "lesser authority" you can tell.

Do you want to end this crime, or not? 
Or are you more concerned with your sister than her victims?

ANY authority you tell (other than family) is legally obligated to tell the police.

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Jann Nikka
Jann Nikka commented
Exactly.
Madison Genovese
Madison Genovese commented
my sisters victims? no my sister is the victim. but ok i can see now that its ok to tell police
Walt O'Reagun
Walt O'Reagun commented
Just because your sister is a victim also, doesn't mean those people she abuses are not her victims. You say your sister is doing it to other kids ... that makes those other kids HER victims.
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Abigail Connor answered

Realize that despite being your sister, she is not in the right state of mind because of her experiences. You really should report it if it's serious, because it's just starting to create a chain. It happened to her, and she's taking it out on other children, so the same thing will happen to them when they're older. I'm not trying to shame you by any means, but you are basically watching her ruin people's lives because of something bad that happened to her

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