Dear Husband, We have been married for ___ years. You are a good man, but after much soul searching, I find that I no longer love you as I did when we got married. We have both grown and changed, but in different ways, and I no longer feel the way I did then. As things are, I find I no longer wish to be married to you. I am somewhat saddened by this change in our relationship, but I feel the only way for me to find the happiness that I long for, is to divorce. I do not wish to make you sad or angry, I am just telling you how I truly feel. I respect you and I bear you no ill will. My fondest hope is that you will go on with your life, and find the happiness that you deserve. Please do not try to change my mind. I have given this a lot of thought, and divorce is what I truly want. I hope that some day you will understand and can forgive me for any unhappiness that this may cause in your life. Thank you for your consideration and cooperation in this matter and may you find a life without me, that will also make you happy. God Bless you and keep you, Sincerely, Wife
